Orgasm control (and the chastity that often goes with it) is maybe the most powerful tool in an FLR for totally changing a guy's emotional attachment. It turns fleeting lust into lasting, deep devotion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The main psychological and emotional changes are:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The fundamental argument is that men often fall into a \u201crefractory phase\u201d after ejaculation. In this phase, interest in intimacy drops abruptly, the man appears \u2018empty\u2019 or \u201cexhausted\u201d and is hardly receptive to dominance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
By denying him orgasm, the woman prevents this emotional breakdown. He remains in a state of \u201cmaximum arousal and devotion.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
His attention does not waver, but remains focused on the woman. He stays in \u201cgentleman mode.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
From egoism to altruism<\/strong> Without control, men often chase after a quick climax (\"sexual stupidity<\/em>\"). Orgasm control deprives him of this selfish satisfaction.<\/p>\n\n\n\n He learns, \"to exist solely for a woman's pleasure<\/strong>\". His own satisfaction becomes irrelevant or completely dependent on her permission.<\/p>\n\n\n\n This leads him to perceive her orgasms as intensely as if they were his own. He becomes a \u201cservant of her desire.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\nNew goal:<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Binding:<\/h3>\n\n\n\n